tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post7746525121543938690..comments2023-10-24T14:51:45.756+02:00Comments on Bloggertropolis: Au NaturaleStevehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-5002474925699147872010-12-07T22:13:20.408+01:002010-12-07T22:13:20.408+01:00Anonymous: so glad you approve of my tip.Anonymous: so glad you approve of my tip.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-10503505061521616642010-12-07T17:11:56.369+01:002010-12-07T17:11:56.369+01:00great information you write it very clean. I am ve...great information you write it very clean. I am very lucky to get this tips from you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-9310251959997478452009-06-01T20:19:42.134+02:002009-06-01T20:19:42.134+02:00Gina: we all have our tastes and preferences but y...Gina: we all have our tastes and preferences but you strike me as someone who recognizes the importance of personality and emotional bonding over and above the physical appearance of a person.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-37835374388290451572009-06-01T15:46:48.427+02:002009-06-01T15:46:48.427+02:00I have no problem with anyone being overweight but...I have no problem with anyone being overweight but I have to say that I do not find even a small amount of flab sexually attractive at all. <br /><br />I often ask myself whether, if I started chatting to someone online and kind of got to the point where I was falling in love with them as a person without meeting them, whether I would recoil in horror if it transpired they were overweight. I hope not. Because that would make me horribly shallow, wouldn't it? But I do find it offputting - and that's a gut (!!!) reaction, not something I can deal with logically - it just makes me go "yuck" (in my head - I hasten to say!). <br /><br />Actually "yuck" is what I tend to say when I catch sight of my own gut these days!! Age is not kind!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-80335073132037057392009-05-28T08:18:05.372+02:002009-05-28T08:18:05.372+02:00AWB: "I think the younger you are the more you rel...AWB: "I think the younger you are the more you rely on appearance because you have fewer benchmarks to go on re character" - that's it right there in a nutshell, I reckon! <br /><br />Moobs: you know you're a <I>real</I> geek when you can recognize the size of the airbrush tool they used just by looking...Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-3543845089699681402009-05-28T01:35:52.030+02:002009-05-28T01:35:52.030+02:00You know you are a geek when the thing you are att...You know you are a geek when the thing you are attracted to is the excellent quality of the photoshoppingMoobshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10432830480757383871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-40932975298159266082009-05-27T23:57:51.907+02:002009-05-27T23:57:51.907+02:00Inflatable breasts. Wow. Can you imagine a leaky v...Inflatable breasts. Wow. Can you imagine a leaky valve.<br /><br />Or when you are filling them up the pump conks out just after you've enlarged the left breast.<br /><br />Going back to Emma's point. If I was single and had a choice of dating, say, Anne Widdecombe or Jordan aka Katie Price, I'd pick the former. I've said that elsewhere.<br /><br />In my time I've tended to find that some 'beautiful' people lean towards using it as a substitute for character; or even hide their real personality behind their physical appeal.<br /><br />I think the younger you are the more you rely on appearance because you have fewer benchmarks to go on re character; the less able you to judge the person under that kin.<br /><br />It certainly has applied to me.The Joined up Cookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02797087157041713649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-11274435154202067552009-05-27T22:10:09.980+02:002009-05-27T22:10:09.980+02:00Owen, I am aghast but not surprised that someone h...Owen, I am aghast but not surprised that someone has come up with adjustable inflatable breasts... the ultimate in convenience surgery I guess. No doubt adjustable cocks are only round the corner with a dial that is attached to the man's buttocks so that a female partner may twiddle away to her heart's content until the right spot is hit... In fact I may have to patent that idea myself and make myself a buck or too of "hard" cash. What a sad world we live in where even the sanctity of the human body can be tweaked and modified at whim as if respraying a car...Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-67967669292773447242009-05-27T21:38:07.397+02:002009-05-27T21:38:07.397+02:00Dearest Steve,
As always you get right into the he...Dearest Steve,<br />As always you get right into the heart, or should I say, the cleavage, of the important issues of our day. <br /><br />It appears that the key and serious comments have been made already, so perhaps with tongue on cheek, errr, tongue in cheek, or rather, eye on cheeks, I might just add, airbrush or no airbrush, I think the bottom line (no panty-line pun intended), is that you just wanted to let us know that this is what you were secretly wishing your two Mormon visitors the other night had looked like... and that you would have answered the doorbell with pleasure in that case ???<br /><br />No, seriously, I have trouble understanding why some people won't accept their natural appearance, whatever their age, and feel they need to modify it, sometimes to terrifying extremes, either on a computer screen image, or in reality. I just learned yesterday, to my horror, while reading in David Foster Wallace's book "Consider the Lobster", that there are adjustable breast implants available, to which fluid can be added or removed via valves under the arms, to enlarge or reduce the size at will... I find that utterly (not udderly) astonishing, in a pathetic sense. And I can't imagine how anyone would find that attractive... but someone must, or there wouldn't be a market for them... <br /><br />What a strange world we live in.<br /><br />I will let you go back to your airbrushing, having rambled on here...<br /><br />(and I apologize in advance if I have offended anybody who may have gone for the inflatable implant option, that sort of thing is just not personally my cup of tea, but I respect your freedom to choose what you consider best for your chest)Owenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12622587942009516590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-34917630891703507172009-05-27T21:20:18.973+02:002009-05-27T21:20:18.973+02:00Emma: I'm not sure other people would necessarily ...Emma: I'm not sure other people would necessarily have said all the women I've dated were classically beautiful... I certainly didn't consider them plain or ugly otherwise I wouldn't have dated them. And you're probably right - I'm not really that enlightened but I would like to think I'm more mature in my tastes and expectations than an 18 year old say or even a 25 year old. I guess we all have our key attractions and foibles and some of us even have types that we go for... and physical attraction has certainly got to be a contributing factor not <I>just</I> personality and brains. But it has to be altogether for it to work for me - the physical side alone is not enough. Maybe that's something that we learn with age and experience? Younger people seem more able to sacrifice the personality for looks but not the other way around. Who knows? It's certainly an interesting debate and I'm enjoying the cut and thrust of other people's arguments - and three comments from your-wonderful-self on one of my posts is something I shall treasure! ;-) I shall keep myself lean in your honour (though the cynical might say that's purely down to my metabolism).Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-8307877951313675672009-05-27T20:50:04.282+02:002009-05-27T20:50:04.282+02:00As for myself I do like a good looking guy and abs...As for myself I do like a good looking guy and absolutely cannot stand any more than maybe five/ten pounds of excess weight on a man - call me superficial if you will - I DO. That said my husband is fairly ordinary looking. What I will say is that looks are definitely fifty per cent of attraction, the other half is brains/personality. But please, no fat!MommyHeadachehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03924035710478459520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-23868344643110421922009-05-27T20:48:07.778+02:002009-05-27T20:48:07.778+02:00All right I stand corrected - but I still don't th...All right I stand corrected - but I still don't think you're enlightened - if you really think beauty is only skin deep you would have dated a fair amount of um, plain or ugly women and I bet you haven't??MommyHeadachehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03924035710478459520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-4487296247870677112009-05-27T19:02:18.030+02:002009-05-27T19:02:18.030+02:00Brother T, I'm not quite sure what alien technolog...Brother T, I'm not quite sure what alien technology you are referring too but anything that presents Jasmine Harman in 3D is fine by me.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-2406502407616788902009-05-27T18:36:49.852+02:002009-05-27T18:36:49.852+02:00I agree with you entirely. Although I found my abi...I agree with you entirely. Although I found my ability to freeview stereo aerial photographs hadn't deserted me (it's like riding a bicycle), and the third Jasmine Harman that materialised in the middle was all the better for being in 3D.Brother Tobiashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14298549883526952305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-13406667394356547962009-05-27T17:10:28.741+02:002009-05-27T17:10:28.741+02:00FF: well if you ever change your mind I'd be happy...FF: well if you ever change your mind I'd be happy to see you on Facebook - though I don't tend to use it very often. If you do change your mind there should be a link to my Facebook page at the top left of my main blog page! ;-)Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-33860794957265382772009-05-27T16:29:39.559+02:002009-05-27T16:29:39.559+02:00s'ok - I'd better say I won't pursue the FB. Mr FF...s'ok - I'd better say I won't pursue the FB. Mr FF and I had a 'dialogue' about not merging our blogging and FB's identities and I've got to go with it really.French Fancy...https://www.blogger.com/profile/04941577892849157015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-71300310311613943572009-05-27T10:08:43.872+02:002009-05-27T10:08:43.872+02:00I've only popped in quickly to wish you all the be...I've only popped in quickly to wish you all the best for Saturday. Getting your degree whilst working and having a family must have been enormously difficult sometimes and you have done so very well.<br /><br />I'm going to contact you on Facebook if that is ok (I won't do it just yet - I'll give you a chance to scream No and run for cover)French Fancy...https://www.blogger.com/profile/04941577892849157015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-13141107742836829102009-05-27T07:53:32.698+02:002009-05-27T07:53:32.698+02:00AWB: pheremones and smell have a lot to do with it...AWB: pheremones and smell have a lot to do with it, as does the way someone moves - their idiosyncrasies - and the way they talk. And what they talk about, of course. The way they think and react. All the things that can't be captured by a camera in a glamour-shot or by the naked eye alone. Instead they must be experienced on a personal level. It's that indefinable "something" that attracts you to a mate - not their hair colour or their bone structure or skin quality...!Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-16007303161044554132009-05-26T23:30:05.399+02:002009-05-26T23:30:05.399+02:00Interesting.
Emma and Steve, I think, have highli...Interesting.<br /><br />Emma and Steve, I think, have highlighted the issue.<br /><br />Appearance.<br /><br />I find it difficult to get into a hot sweat over mere appearance, contrary to what most women think men are like.<br /><br />I wonder if Steve is trying to say the same thing.<br /><br />It's the personality behind the flesh that matters; or maybe the pheromones.<br /><br />Yes, the intial impact of 'the body' can matter but not always and after that initial impact it's relatively unimportant.<br /><br />When I was young I thought I was 'hard-wired' to find petite dark haired women attractive. They were my fantasy.<br /><br />I fell in love with a redhead and am still married to her and, yes, still love her.<br /><br />I think Steve is enlightened in the sense that he can see beyond the hardwiring.<br /><br />Not everyone can.The Joined up Cookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02797087157041713649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-31381869870582368482009-05-26T20:54:38.206+02:002009-05-26T20:54:38.206+02:00Amanda, I'm sure you don't look as old as you real...Amanda, I'm sure you don't look as old as you really are... you just need to be confident. And as for shallowness... well, too much depth is down right boring!<br /><br />Thank you, Mrs Cheeks - I'm as regular as they come and it's taken me a good few years to be happy with that. But I made it in the end!<br /><br />Tris: true but sadly it's almost a rite of passage... buying (or more often sneaking a peak at) your first top shelf gentleman's magazine. Some do come through it enlightened but most I'm sure stay forever Neanderthal. Makes you wonder what type of woman would settle for a man like that?<br /><br />Emma: I do see what you mean but much as I think you are wonderful too you are wrong. ;-) I like women of all types and have fancied women of all types in my time (I just didn't get anywhere with most of them) - big, slim, tall, short, brunette, blonde and red head. I refuse to be tied down on what I consider to be attractive. I think a confident personality is the key to making my jingly bits jangle.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-56611797576319496052009-05-26T19:31:43.366+02:002009-05-26T19:31:43.366+02:00Look you know I think you are wonderful but let's ...Look you know I think you are wonderful but let's call a stretch mark a stretch mark - sexuality is simply something we are born with. Some people are sexually attracted to shoes and some to red hair, yes, some are even attracted to dwarfs, people without limbs etc. That is the same as you - I don't think it is enlightened of you to fancy this Jasmine woman unairbrushed you simply fancy the roly poly type of woman. For example you probably would not find a woman as thin as Kate Moss attractive but that is just the way you are programmed! You see what I mean?MommyHeadachehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03924035710478459520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-89467790003880485972009-05-26T18:01:15.624+02:002009-05-26T18:01:15.624+02:00Just goes to show that we still live in a misogyni...Just goes to show that we still live in a misogynist society, sadly. Every time I see a teenage boy looking at these kind of images in magazines like FHM or Nuts, I see another generation of men who objectify women.Tristanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14235856654790610822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-42580734092062468022009-05-26T08:59:12.944+02:002009-05-26T08:59:12.944+02:00What a great post!
I'm a regular girl married to ...What a great post!<br /><br />I'm a regular girl married to a regular guy...and we both much prefer the non-airbrushed look.<br /><br />;-)<br /><br />And you're a cutie Wonderful Steve!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-66443854624349272172009-05-26T08:49:47.599+02:002009-05-26T08:49:47.599+02:00No point gloating that I always add about 15 years...No point gloating that I always add about 15 years to my age just to get the "gee, you don;'t look that old!" response. I am standing here shallow and ashamed.The Sagittarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05513045101496737031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35009574.post-68723375749859369892009-05-25T23:05:09.846+02:002009-05-25T23:05:09.846+02:00AWB: a very thought provoking response as always a...AWB: a very thought provoking response as always and one that may warrant a blog post of its own. And you're right of course: we're all guilty of wielding an airbrush from time to time... the airbrush of convenience, the airbrush of ease, the airbrush of cowardice...Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.com